Hanging onto past perceived losses really does you a disservice as well. I could get sad when I thought about time spent with women no longer in my life, beginning with a twinge of regret. But then I'd correct myself and see that there was no loss at all. It was time spent and enjoyed. Now there is only here and the future. Loss doesn't really factor into my thought process anymore, it gets weird to see your mental model change in that way, almost as if there is supposed to be something there. This and things like this cease to be a problem when other people are no longer your mental point of origin.
For me it doesn't even seem like acceptance of the loss, it is like a meta-layer of thinking where the concept doesn't exist.
Amazing stuff as usual. You are the reason why I'm redpill. I even joined twitter so I could follow you (I hope I don't sound like a fanboy) it's good to have you here.
Hmm. Is there nothing to the longitudinal picture of grandchildren, family tradition, and the like? The longer a couple holds on, the more generations pour out from them, the more the harm that a break-up could produce. What happens to the two of them affects a great number of the ones they love, and never, ever in a good way, if they dissolve the covenant that gave rise to everyone else. Do they not pay attention to the compounded misery when they do?
Hanging onto past perceived losses really does you a disservice as well. I could get sad when I thought about time spent with women no longer in my life, beginning with a twinge of regret. But then I'd correct myself and see that there was no loss at all. It was time spent and enjoyed. Now there is only here and the future. Loss doesn't really factor into my thought process anymore, it gets weird to see your mental model change in that way, almost as if there is supposed to be something there. This and things like this cease to be a problem when other people are no longer your mental point of origin.
For me it doesn't even seem like acceptance of the loss, it is like a meta-layer of thinking where the concept doesn't exist.
Amazing stuff as usual. You are the reason why I'm redpill. I even joined twitter so I could follow you (I hope I don't sound like a fanboy) it's good to have you here.
Hmm. Is there nothing to the longitudinal picture of grandchildren, family tradition, and the like? The longer a couple holds on, the more generations pour out from them, the more the harm that a break-up could produce. What happens to the two of them affects a great number of the ones they love, and never, ever in a good way, if they dissolve the covenant that gave rise to everyone else. Do they not pay attention to the compounded misery when they do?
If i understand correctly, unattractive men want to get into relationships so they can shame women into f*cking them instead of becoming attractive